Monday, October 24, 2011

Note to Self: Don't be a victim of the holiday blues.


Holidays are supposed to be a time of love, joy and celebrations, but for some people it can be a very lonely time. With the holiday season just around the corner, don't be a victim of the holiday blues. Embrace your loneliness!


This time last year everything was different. I was in a relationship throughout the entire season, from Halloween to New Years. I had a boyfriend to carve pumpkins and bake holiday treats with, a date for all the parties, someone to exchange gifts with, and most importantly, a New Year's kiss. But shortly after the holiday season was over, so was our relationship. 


This year, everything about the holidays reminds me of last year's love, but I refuse to let it get me down. Of course it would be easy for me to sit around and dwell on my loneliness, but what's the point? You can only truly be happy if you let go of your past.  Even though things didn't work out for us in the end, I learned valuable lessons from our relationship and I wouldn't change it for the world.


Use your past to illustrate a point and leave it behind. Relationship or not, make the most of this holiday season!


And this is not to say
There never comes a day
I'll take my chances and start again
And when I look behind
On all my younger times
I have to thank the wrongs that led me to a love so strong
- John Mayer




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1 comment:

  1. Kimbi your blogs are amazing!!! you share advice that many of us can benefit off of. keep up the good work, and dont ever let anyone try to stop you :)

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